“ The older I
get the wiser am trying to be, though crazier I want to be “ #Anoofah
Since I was a
little girl I've always kept telling myself that am truly blessed for not being
the eldest sister specially seeing how my sisters used to take care of us and
take some of family responsibilities.
But then when I
started seeing my friends at school holding their younger sisters hands I wanted
to have a baby sister too!
So my mind and
heart were both torn apart between wanting to be the eldest and not to be , but
years passed and I guess I attracted what I was mostly thinking about.
Chapter 1 (I am
Scared )
Back around
2009\2010 when sister who was the eldest at that time got engaged I was kind of
worried that I am next; its me who will take care of almost everything so yeah
the next big boss
Worrying too
much defiantly was not the solution maybe I should just get myself a little
prepared for this new phase of my life
NOTE : am not
irresponsible person , I used to have little responsibilities at home and
school you know but they were not huge
So the day came
and now ladies and gentlemen , I am officially the eldest sister
Chapter 2 (
where is EVERYTHING )
My sister was
basically my dad’s personal assistant , my mom’s secretary and baby sitter sometimes a chef“ All in one “
Once she went to
her honey moon everybody started asking me about everything , where is this?
Where is that ? when is my appointment ? parents meeting at my baby sister
school .
I was not going
to call my sister and ruin her honeymoon but eventually I had to when things
went out of control
Chapter 3 (
keeping up with everyone )
Here is a tip to
all of you big sisters heheh! time is the main key to play your role right ,
make sure you have the time to talk to everyone at home , thats how you keep up
with everyone and their lives.
It was not an
easy task I must say but you know, you gotta do whatch ya gotta do !
Chapter 4 (
Secrets keeper )
Yes you read it
right you are going to be everyone secret keeper don’t panic to what they tell
you , as long as they have the courage to tell you their secrets then you can
play it right and give them your point of view without scaring them out and
make them hide it from you
Chapter 5 (
everything you say\do is counted )
Here is one of
the most toughest thing you ought to be “ the wisest creature of all time “ every
word you say is truly heard , your opinion is valuable * though I do admit they
just ignore what I say , which is fine $,$*
It does get
really scary when you see your younger siblings copy your words
Chapter 6 ( the
unknown )
There are times
when you have to look after everyone at home “ including your parents “
It is really hard to let go of things you
truly love because you are the “ Role model “ and every action you do would be
repetitive, knowing that your parents always expect A LOT
You will face a
time when the whole family blames you for some silly mistakes your younger
siblings did , and you need to take the
full responsibility for that .
Chapter 7 ( after
all enjoy the ride )
Here is one
thing I know for sure , every human
being is \ will be adapted to every situation they face , it is how you
deal with and use it for your own good ,
I know that my love for my family has
grew and I do learn a lot from them hoping that they do from me too
It is the life I
meant to live or I attracted , along the road there are ups and downs and it is
my fully responsibility to choose my reaction and how to control my emotions ,
life is always full of surprises and lessons , I am grateful for I am now and
for the person I will be
Love you
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