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Self Talk


Lately things were not really easy at work and you know you spend most of your time hmm actually your day at work than at home, so minor things can get you really affected

The other day when things went out of control “ from my perspective “ I had to call a colleague whom I truly trust her wisdom, so the talk was about the incident that happened and all and they asked me a major questions

“ Nouf , Why does it bother you ? “

the question made my brain flipped like cant really explain , really who does it bother me ? after all we all have a story to tell in our lives and our signature in live will remain the same if we have not allowed anyone to touch it or change it

people do come and leave from our path , and we are the one who is responsible to let our heart and mind open to the lesson that we want to learn from them , without letting them change our ultimate life goal !

if people who are surrounding you are giving you a hard time like the one I have always remember that question and ask your self if its worth it

so yeah I forgot to mention the other part “ you know ladies brain “ we talk about something and then jump to something else :P

As the conversation kept going between me and my colleague that I told you about ! hmm wait a minute can I call her my cute and wise fairy , she mentioned that our self talk should always be about our life goals and forget every obstacles that comes to our way .

I felt really good after hanging up and I know one thing for sure  “ Angles can come in form of human “












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Comments

Msari ali said…
In order to face that (hard moments)we should create our own community which we should choose carefully.
The meaning to have positive friends appears in such situations

Wish you all the best nooof ✋��


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