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What happened ?


Last week i got a call from one of my friends whom I haven't spoke to since maybe forever ! its been a while i admit and i know lots of things have been going on with her life , same thing goes to me .. and its really nice of her calling me just to catch up with all of these dramatic changes that we both had and did not had the chance to talk about ....

So one of things that we talked about was who are we still keeping in touch with , referring to college friends , and after mentioning  certain names she was quit upset of those who did not call her and after hearing that she got married , they're back just to know who's the guy , when and how they got married you know the silly kind of questions , Am like WTH :\ ?   why things have changed , now they would  call just for checking whether you worked \got married\traveled  ... not to check how's actually YOU !! i don't know if you guys got what I mean ...

After we hang up I kept thinking what happened to us ? why are not we friends as we used to be ? why do we chase each other just to see if you are doing better than me .. we used to share lots of moments together .. college life wouldn't be easy with us being together ! please Stop comparing and lets keep this pure friendship alive ! we should always stick together to empower each other not compare and then get jealous

I thought that friendship is for a life time !

I hope am not wrong !


PS : Tammy & Merve Lets always stick together :) 










At the End Dont forget to Keep your happy thoughts Life has so much amazing things to show you 


Anoofah 

Comments

Bayan S. said…
I know exactly what u meant!!
Many girls are dying to know if someone ia doing worse than them so they can act like they're better!!

It's really sad to see good old relationships go with the wind :(

We need to hold on to our current friends and never let stupid stuff tear us apart!!
Anonymous said…
Evertthing will be just fine :) chill
Anonymous said…
Have fun even if they are not around



Miss Bee
Anonymous said…
Miss you so much wallah.. I get same call from Lola. I thought you are writing in behalf of me.. dear, we need to be in touch even if we are extremely busy. I am so angry from myself as I don't have any connection with my best friends since long time.


How are you my best friend :)


Eiman alhefeiti
Tota said…
I have nothing to say.. It just hurts and I hate it.. This feeling of having shells as friends ..
I miss my real friends ..

Love you nouf .. And love all what u say XOXO
NojoudMemoirs said…
Sure I get what u mean. Acquaintances keep track of what u r doing in life, friends care more about how u r feeling. Life changes some relations unintentionally due to many circumstances. Since u consider them friends, make excuses for them, that's what friends do, this will also help u feel peace with in and with friendship bonds. I liked what u wrote, shows u care.
NojoudMemoirs said…
Sure I get what u mean. Acquaintances keep track of what u r doing in life, friends care more about how u r feeling. Life changes some relations unintentionally due to many circumstances. Since u consider them friends, make excuses for them, that's what friends do, this will also help u feel peace with in and with friendship bonds. I liked what u wrote, shows u care.
Anonymous said…
Yeah some ppl are just nosy lol

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